Togimi
Show up for each other.

Less texting. More real time together.

Togimi brings a small group together live, every week: one regular video meeting and short 1-on-1s with the people you choose. Togimi does the planning and everyone gets it by email. All you do is show up.

  • A regular moment every week
  • Live on video, in your browser
  • Hardly any app needed
Togi, the Togimi shiba

Real people. Real moments. Stronger together.

Why a small, steady group works

You know the feeling: inspired after a training or a good conversation, you set an intention, and three weeks later it has faded. Not because you don't want it, but because you're doing it alone. A small group that meets every week changes that.

1You are seen

After a few weeks the others know your story. You don't have to explain who you are again, and you dare to say more.

2You keep going

What you plan on your own often fades. When a group counts on you, you show up. The rhythm carries you through busy weeks.

3You grow together

A theme or exercise each week, with people who see you change. Small steps, taken together, last longer.

Meet live, don't just text

Group chats and forums are handy for practical things. But real connection rarely grows in a thread of two hundred messages.

Group chat or forumA Togimi moment
Hundreds of messages; step away and you lose the threadOne fixed moment; everyone knows when
Text without tone: quick misunderstandings and debateYou hear someone's voice and see their face
The fastest typists do the talkingIn a small circle everyone gets a turn
Always on, never doneA clear start and end, then back to your life
Contact fades when life gets busyThe rhythm keeps you together

Keep your group chat for practical things. Togimi makes sure you also really see each other.

Where it started

MorningSpark: men who make each other stronger

Togimi started as MorningSpark. A facilitator works with a steady group of men. Every week the group meets. Then come the 1-on-1s: with the facilitator, and between the men themselves. To help each other move forward in business, in marketing, or simply with what's going on in life.

The group gives direction. The 1‑on‑1 gives depth.

A week at MorningSpark
  1. MondayThe groupOne hour together. What's going on, what are you taking on?
  2. Wednesday1-on-1 with the facilitatorTwenty minutes to go deeper into your question.
  3. Friday1-on-1 with a group memberSparring about your business, your marketing or your life. Man to man.

Three groups, one rhythm

Togimi fits any group that wants to move forward together. Three examples of how facilitators use it.

Entrepreneurs

The mastermind that lasts

Eight entrepreneurs, every Monday at 8:00. Each names one goal for the week. Then 1-on-1s to spar about pricing, marketing or that one difficult client. Nobody drops out in busy weeks, because the group counts on you.

Weekly · 1-on-1s every other week
Practice group in a community

From learned to lived

After a training, for example in VortexHealing, you want to keep practising. Every week with your steady practice group, and in 1-on-1s taking turns giving and receiving. That's how what you learned becomes what you can do.

Weekly · 1-on-1s to practise
Men's circle

Brothers who miss you

Every week in the circle: open, honest, without judgement. In between, 1-on-1s with the men you click with. And if you go quiet, a brother sends you a message.

Weekly or every other week

How it works

  1. 1Invite your group

    Everyone gets a personal link via WhatsApp. No account, no password, no app store.

  2. 2Everyone says when they can

    A few taps: which parts of the day usually work, and who in the group they are okay having a 1-on-1 with.

  3. 3Togimi plans, you meet

    A regular group moment and short 1-on-1s at times that suit both. On Sunday evening your week arrives by email; join with one tap.

What a week with Togimi feels like

Hi! I'm inviting you to our group. Tap here to join: app.togimi.fun/k/…
An invitation on WhatsAppFrom someone you know. One tap and you're in.
Sunday 19:00 Your week Thursday 20:00 · Group meeting JoinI can't make it
Your week in your inbox on SundayWho, when and the theme. Join or cancel with one tap.
MorningSpark● 20:00 JJackEEthanLLukeMMason
Together, when it's timeTap Join and you're with your group. No downloads, no hassle.

Made for close groups

Nobody quietly drifts away

If someone missed two meetings, Togimi asks a group member to send a quick message. So everyone knows: you are missed.

Safe

A 1-on-1 only happens when two people both chose each other. Nobody sees who chose whom, not even the facilitator.

Own video server

Meetings on a dedicated server in Europe. No recordings, no tracking, no big tech.

For you as a facilitator

You started because you want to help people move forward. Not to juggle calendars, send reminders and chase cancellations. Togimi takes that work off your hands. You set the tone and the theme; the rest runs. And if someone starts drifting, you hear about it in time.

  • To do at a glance
  • Theme per meeting
  • A nudge when someone drifts away
  • Rhythm and attendance in totals

Frequently asked questions

What does Togimi cost?

One group is free, with all planning. For more groups or your own space for your community we ask a small yearly contribution. During the test phase the video server is free as well.

Do I need to install an app?

No. Togimi works in your browser, on your phone and on your computer. Want it on your home screen? One tap, no app store.

Will I end up talking to someone I don't know?

No. A 1-on-1 only happens when you both chose each other. A conversation with three only when all three agree. Nobody sees who chose whom.

Who sees my data?

Only the people in your group see your name, and your number only if you leave that on. Everything runs on our own server in Europe, without ads or tracking. You can delete all your data yourself.

What if the moment no longer fits?

Once a month Togimi asks whether the moment still works. If another moment suits the group better, the facilitator gets a suggestion. Moving is always announced two weeks ahead.

Does it work if we live in different countries?

Yes. Everyone sees everything in their own time, and a 1-on-1 between Amsterdam and New York lands at a reasonable hour for both. Each member also picks their own language: English or Dutch.

Can we use our own Zoom or Meet?

Yes. Choose your own link in the group settings, such as Zoom, Google Meet or Teams. 1-on-1s are then off: each needs its own room, which only works with Togimi video.

Togimi for your group or community?

Start free with one group. More groups, or Togimi with your own name and logo? Then we set it up together.

Got an invitation?

Open the personal link from your message. You don't need an account or password.